Comments on: Privacy and ethics. http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/ site updates and announcements for the ybm community Sat, 28 Aug 2010 08:47:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Lauren http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-12623 Lauren Sun, 03 May 2009 23:48:11 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-12623 hello, for the past 3 mos, whenever i try and post, i am bounced automatically to the permalink page. i have played with filters, etc. i obviously now rarely use ybm, but would like to do so again. how can this be fixed? thanks hello,

for the past 3 mos, whenever i try and post, i am bounced automatically to the permalink page. i have played with filters, etc. i obviously now rarely use ybm, but would like to do so again. how can this be fixed?

thanks

]]> By: lauren http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-109 lauren Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:55:39 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-109 if i ever get to the point where i want to kill myself and i cry out for help on ybm, you have permission to look me up and call 911. if it's a legitimate cry, then you've saved a life. if it was fake, then you've taught a very sick person a lesson and everyone else on ybm-it's not a joke to fake suicide and we'll send the cops to your house. oh and maybe you should look up betty's info and see if she works at cnet. if i ever get to the point where i want to kill myself and i cry out for help on ybm, you have permission to look me up and call 911.

if it’s a legitimate cry, then you’ve saved a life. if it was fake, then you’ve taught a very sick person a lesson and everyone else on ybm-it’s not a joke to fake suicide and we’ll send the cops to your house.

oh and maybe you should look up betty’s info and see if she works at cnet.

]]> By: Julz http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-105 Julz Thu, 03 Jul 2008 14:58:13 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-105 Ooooo, I like the new blog, YBM! Very nice. And refreshing that basic human empathy conflicted with the sacrosanct confidentiality we all hold so dear. It gives us yet another glimpse into your soul. And Betty from NJ...you sound like a One-Trick Pony. Go away. Ooooo, I like the new blog, YBM! Very nice.

And refreshing that basic human empathy conflicted with the sacrosanct confidentiality we all hold so dear. It gives us yet another glimpse into your soul.

And Betty from NJ…you sound like a One-Trick Pony. Go away.

]]> By: ybm http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-104 ybm Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:12:39 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-104 @Amy K, thanks for that note. Good food for thought. - YBM @Amy K, thanks for that note. Good food for thought. – YBM

]]> By: Amy K. http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-101 Amy K. Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:10:57 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-101 not for nothing, but I am on another site for survivors of abuse. It's also a support site, not run by professionals. A woman was talking about suicide, and the administrators went ahead and called 911 to do a "well check" on her. She felt sheepish, but to me (and to her), that was infinitely better than finding out she'd offed herself. that's just an alternate story, not saying what you should have done. not for nothing, but I am on another site for survivors of abuse. It’s also a support site, not run by professionals. A woman was talking about suicide, and the administrators went ahead and called 911 to do a “well check” on her. She felt sheepish, but to me (and to her), that was infinitely better than finding out she’d offed herself. that’s just an alternate story, not saying what you should have done.

]]> By: Jay http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-91 Jay Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:02:39 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-91 Betty in NJ: it seems as if you are the most frequent comment poster here, responding to every single blog post pretty much. You are bitter and have an agenda - who are you? Out yourself now. Your agitated response is testimony to youbemom's success. Incidentally, the Japanese were always criticized by your kind for taking american ideas and making them better, cheaper, more efficient - think cars and electronics. Their economy was essentially built on this ability, and it comes out of a culture of listening to the customer. What you are seeing here is just history replaying itself, just on an internet platform. Betty in NJ: it seems as if you are the most frequent comment poster here, responding to every single blog post pretty much. You are bitter and have an agenda – who are you? Out yourself now. Your agitated response is testimony to youbemom’s success. Incidentally, the Japanese were always criticized by your kind for taking american ideas and making them better, cheaper, more efficient – think cars and electronics. Their economy was essentially built on this ability, and it comes out of a culture of listening to the customer. What you are seeing here is just history replaying itself, just on an internet platform.

]]> By: ybm http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-88 ybm Tue, 01 Jul 2008 01:10:17 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-88 @Triplet Mom, Don't give it another thought. We are just happy that you and your children are safe. <br/><br/> - YBM @Triplet Mom, Don’t give it another thought. We are just happy that you and your children are safe.

- YBM

]]> By: Triplet Mom http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-86 Triplet Mom Mon, 30 Jun 2008 23:53:03 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-86 I never felt like a bigger ass in my whole life. I was in such a desperate place that morning and I needed help. It wasn't a suicide attempt - yes I felt like just going to sleep to escape the pain I was feeling. I was crying for help in a very lame way but I was really unstable at the time. I have since apologized to all of you and thanked all of those who have been so supportive to me. I want to apologize as well to the creators of YBM for putting them in such a position. I am truly ashamed that I caused all of this fuss. I know I brought it upon myself but I wish everyone would stop referring to me as Benadryl mom. It just brings back the shame and pain every time I see it. I love being on YBM - I have been a part of this community for two years now. I misused the forum once and I regret it. But I am glad to know I have this forum for support and advice. I never felt like a bigger ass in my whole life. I was in such a desperate place that morning and I needed help. It wasn’t a suicide attempt – yes I felt like just going to sleep to escape the pain I was feeling. I was crying for help in a very lame way but I was really unstable at the time. I have since apologized to all of you and thanked all of those who have been so supportive to me.

I want to apologize as well to the creators of YBM for putting them in such a position. I am truly ashamed that I caused all of this fuss.

I know I brought it upon myself but I wish everyone would stop referring to me as Benadryl mom. It just brings back the shame and pain every time I see it.

I love being on YBM – I have been a part of this community for two years now. I misused the forum once and I regret it. But I am glad to know I have this forum for support and advice.

]]> By: red 87 http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-84 red 87 Sun, 29 Jun 2008 21:36:27 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-84 Sounds like you did the right thing. For all the bitchiness and nasty insults this site seems to brin out of people, I have been on a few times and seen people really rally around someone in trouble. Several years back a mom came on early in the morning clearly in the throes of major ppd and having a meltdown. Almost to a post, every person responding did their best to help her. Several women posted their phone numbers and offered to come take care of her baby for a few hours to give her a break. It was enough to bring tears to your eyes. There are some nasty people on here, but I feel by and large, when it's really serious, the posters here do the right thing. Sounds like you did the right thing. For all the bitchiness and nasty insults this site seems to brin out of people, I have been on a few times and seen people really rally around someone in trouble. Several years back a mom came on early in the morning clearly in the throes of major ppd and having a meltdown. Almost to a post, every person responding did their best to help her. Several women posted their phone numbers and offered to come take care of her baby for a few hours to give her a break. It was enough to bring tears to your eyes.

There are some nasty people on here, but I feel by and large, when it’s really serious, the posters here do the right thing.

]]> By: Deeze http://blog.youbemom.com/2008/06/26/privacy-and-ethics/#comment-77 Deeze Sat, 28 Jun 2008 11:53:52 +0000 http://blog.youbemom.com/?p=18#comment-77 oh, and betty? enough already. oh, and betty? enough already.

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